Happy Chinese New year!

Hello all,

Last year had been a very busy year for me...Busy with my work, my part-time study, my boyfriend ( going to be hubby soon, hehe) and so much thing in life.

Mmmmm...i find that after so many things happen, i have become more mature, understanding and most importantly a better person!  

HAPPY LUNAR NEW YEAR!!! chinese new year have 15 days and today is the eigth day which is also a everyone's birthday...this is the traditional belief

Today.

Today is a happy and relax day. My hubby and i went to east coast park , planning to cycle but we were too hungry so we end up in the hawker centre  having the famous 'wanton mee'! Yummy, that's really good. We also order a plate of carrot cake and fried oyster!!  yummy yummy, we enjoy the great food so much!  Follow by the relaxed stroll along the beach enjoying the sunset

.: i read this book and highly recommand it - Tuesday with Morrie (forget the name of the author )

.: Grace! How are you??! havent read your blog for a year, hope that you are also enjoying life!

Something i have learnt, just want to share, mmm..let me try relatingmy thoughts... 

" In some days tears happen and we cry, endure, grieve, and move on.

  Sometimes we Forget about basic happiness and are too engrossed in our unhappiness...

  Rules, Laws, Social Pressure and People preception

  Why do we let others control your life?

  Why live in people's life while you can have your own

  Just be happy and embrace Life in its entirety,

  Life comes with sadness and hurt... but it also promises joy and excitement...

  Be ALIVE while you are alive.

  We have only 1 life, so let's live it our way..

  With goodness, kindness, love and lot of understanding + respect for other.

  Be true to yourself - always..."

Good night!

  - cozy

Make a place in your heart

HOW GOOD YOU HAVE IT

Do you fully realize how good you have it?

Or do you take all the good and valuable things for granted, focusing only on the troubles and disappointments?

Sure,you have problems, and of course there are challenges and difficulties.

The best way to move forward through those difficulties is by staying connected to the real,enduring goodness in your life.

Stop for a moment and think of five things in your life for which you can be truly thankful.

Then consider what you could do to build and nurture those things, to make them more influential in your thoughts and your actions.

It is easy for the pressing problems of the moment to overwhelm your thinking.

So it is really up to you to provide a powerful, positive alternative.

When you have something to be thankful for, you have something real and valuable to go on.

You have a solid foundation from which to build.

And no matter where you maybe or what may have happened, you do indeed have many things for which you can be truly thankful.

The more completely you stay connected to them, the more surely life will move in the direction you desire.

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Funny Dream

Last night, i had a dream. I could still remember it clearly ...

I dreamed that I was sitting at the middle of my classroom listening to lecture.

The room was quite dark because the lecturer was using the projector flashing his documents. Coming to the important part of the lesson, everyone was quickly copying down the notes that was flashed on the screen. I wanted to took out my pen and foolscaple from my bag to copy...

But i kept looking on my left seat and right seat and on the floor, i looked around myself, i couldnt find my black have sack bag. Partly was because the room was quite dark. I kept on staring hard around where im siting, searching. Then (i also dont know why) the lecturer allow a big group of students who were waiting outside to join in the class. i started to get panicked. Because some of them come to sit around me, and i was still searching, i couldnt find my bag... Getting worried..

Then the lecturer shouted at me "Can the girl there, please dont look here and there, YOU ARE DISTRACTING ME!!!" "I really dislike things like that to happen in my lecture!"

I was stunned.  Everyone was looking at me.

Panicked. Panting. Even loss in words when i realised

the one who shouted at me is actually one of the member in boyband 5566.

Yes, this guy. Very very weird, right. Then i woke up from my dream.

i sit on my bed for a while because i needed some time to recover from my dream.

I began to laugh at myself. Is it crazy?!!! This guy from 5566.

They are not even the boyband i liked. I never thought of them or him at all.

Why in my dream did he appear ???????? A thousand question marks!! why him? Really stretching my head!

hahaha..But anyway this dream is really a joke to me.

When i was telling my boyfriend this morning, he was laughing so loud. I thought i had given him a good morning lung exercise!

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I was wondering why did i have such a dream.

Then I deduced that maybe i have been forcing myself too hard, pressurizing myself too much ...hai~ Exam coming and lately my mood was not very good. Feeling inferior.

I did not know when does it started. But always feeling i still have a lot of rooms to improve. Always thinking im not good enough   Getting negative ...

This is no good. :Shaking my head: Got to stop this!

Part of the reason, must have been because im studying for the last few days straight after work, not having fun.. hai~ too much things to study, mid exam next Friday.

Okay. Got to relax myself a bit...Today is Friday, right!

so today i would like to go shopping or go out with my friends or

maybe im would like to go to my favourite restaurant for a dinner!...

kekeke...Yes! Time to pamper myself a bit!

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"Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you're going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way."